We have an article on the end of your marriage as the end
of "act one" of your life play. That you need to get ready for act two
and admit the curtain has come down on act one.
hardly anyone goes to plays any more, I thought maybe you could relate
to this better and should look at it this way like you were an actor or
actress and you just finished your first movie.
You only had a bit part but it is over and you are now foolishly
spending all your time and effort, trying to get them to do a sequel and
include you in their next movie playing the same character in your
Knowledgeable actors or actresses would realize this one is over and
right away be moving on to the next movie.
Now, look at this way...we are going to give you the wherewithal here to
study up and be fully able to be in charge, if you choose, any or all of
these roles in your next picture.
That is only if you want to take and fully accept the responsibility.
If you choose to, then you can even be in charge of the script, you plan and
decide what you want to happen in your next movie. To make it far
better then the last one, you can even be the casting director, and get to
choose who plays what part, in this next movie.
Accepting the role of director, in addition, you decide and motivate
people in the new movie to live the part you want them for.
Since you are the person basically in charge of this "next
movie" why not just make yourself the "star" this time,
no more bit parts in someone else's movie.
You can count on it,, this is going to be scary, having all this
responsibility for your new movie. Sure, it was much easier to just let
someone else run the show and you just have a "bit part"in
someone else's movie.
The main point here is, you need to decide, do you decide to take
charge of this new movie of life, or do you keep looking to play a bit
part in someone elses movie? You do need to decide soon, which it
You can of course just continue to bumble along not make any decisions
or any take charge of what happens to you, and like a ship with no port
of destination, take your chances of eventually running aground or
broken up in a storm etc.
If you decide to just search for a bit part in someone else's movie,
then you really do not need to study up and rehearse, (practice) for
whats ahead. You can probably just go and eventually find someone
who will basically have you repeat your bit part and do what you did in your
last movie, sort of "familiar" reruns.
If however, you decide to take complete responsibility for your next
movie, and be totally in charge of making it a
"blockbuster", then you
need to start learning how to do it, practice doing it, get help and
advise from others that have done a good one and find people that can
help get you back on track when you run into problems that seem beyond
You can, when ready, start talking to prospects for playing major and
minor roles in your next movie. You can sit down write and revise
and rethink what you want to happen in your next movie script. Plan for
and commit it to paper now, write it to be great fun and a very exciting
movie that anyone would be proud to be in.
Your potential co stars will want to know whats in the script before
they sign on.
If you have no idea what is going to happen in your next movie, why
would they want to sign on to be in your movie? Think about that.
Have a great script planned and lots of people will want to be in your
movie and you will need to pick and choose.
If they are enthusiastic about their role in your new movie,
have a much easier time as a director to get them to act the way you see
their part to be played.
If in contrast, you have "unrealistic demands" as the director,
beyond their capabilities, they will just "walk out" right in the
middle of your "shooting".
Remember, you will need lots of people, not just stars, in your
movie,this is not going to be about a hermit on a deserted island. You
will need to cast and select and work with many people to play many parts in
what is only your "second" movie. They will all interact,
but you are
the director of what happens here.
Do not expect to be very good at this initially, study up on it, get
advise from those who have done bang up jobs on movies similar to what
you are doing, get feedback from experts on what you are doing right and
what you are doing wrong.
Get lots of practice, practice, and when ready,
Good luck on your next movie.
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