What Was Behind The Divorce
© 2001 Harlan Jacobsen
Think About This When
it is over, its over. Move On
Let me boil this down to
my observation (some controversial) from the stories and sharing
of over ten thousand divorced people and the divorce
of all types of folks that attended my classes over a ten year
- What "was" when you got married, "changes" in
even a few years. You both grew in different directions,
needs changed and you were now both in a different place.
If you had met for the first time even a few months ago
you likely would not have at all been "interested"
in each other.
- Rehashing and going over your "just died" relationship
is almost a waste of time. The next one will be entirely
- Having to pretend to stay in a relationship that has
"expired" is a terrible sentence.
- Once one partner has totally decided the relationship
is over, it is a frustrating complete waste of time and
effort on the part of the other to try and try to change
- There are two reasons the spouse left, One, the
reason that sounds good. Two, the real reason.
- Most people think the relationship died because
the sexual interest died. It is in fact usually the
other way around, the sexual interest died because
the relationship went south.
My advice is on letting go and not wasting any more time rehashing
what went wrong in the last basketball game, just practice,
sharpen your skills and get ready for the next game
coming up shortly.
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