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DIVORCE CAN BE GREAT FUN some people claim,
they're seldom the ones actually undergoing the experience!
fact, it looks as if the whole myth of the boy-am-I-glad-to-get-out-of-that-marriage"
single, swinging gaily in the wee hours of the night.........
is just that a myth,
all of those badly hurt souls out there
as they try:
to commit suicide,
to crack up, and
to think some very bad thoughts about themselves.
mean that you were the "bad one" in your
doesn't mean that your ex-spouse was "right."
In fact, sending
out heavy vibes to your ex-spouse
to the effect
that you were "right"
and they were
"wrong" is just a part of that myth we were talking
and goes nicely
with those midnight sessions in front of the mirror
when it feels
as if you were "wrong" and they were
In other words,
that most people
take away from their separations and divorces:
even the lousiest of relationships
still a relationship ...
and that ending
a relationship of any kind
is about as
painless as having your wisdom teeth yanked........
without any anesthetic.
are recognizable as people --
instead of turtles or earthworms --
they have this incredible and completely unconscious tendency....
to grow into each other,
partner in a marriage learning to zig where the other one
and after that's
gone on for even a couple of years,
they're as tangled
up emotionally as a plate of spaghetti....
or a forest of seaweed.
the marriage goes bad
-- or the "relationship,"..........
you happen to have been tangled up with someone.... long enough
without actually making it to the altar --
"pulling the whole thing apart" feels exactly like
getting badly wounded,.......
as all your needs and habits
come loose and
start groping around for nourishment.
provided you're not one of those who
their brains out
or end up
sedation in a psychiatric hospital,
learn, above all,
that this one is going to take time.
and all the help, soothing advice, and general
good sense you can put your hands on...............
is the place to keep checking the route tips
supplied to get you from what may be the worse time
of your life to the
VERY BESTtime of your life.
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