Follow these five steps
for 30 days and see an AMAZING major change
in your life.
1. Cut off all contact with "downer" people in your
You become like who you associate
with....and you are not able to carry negative
friends at this time.
Find new optimistic "enthused about life" people who will
lift you up from the doldrums and help you become full
of enthusiasm about joining them in a new life.
2. Stop focusing on whats bad or not
What you concentrate on grows. Focus your thought and
efforts instead on what IS working, and what is going better and
right in your life.
getting more of whatever you think about all day long.
3. Stop listening to sad songs or
stations programmed with downers.
Turn your TV off for six months and stop watching news
You have enough downers input of your own.
the media for six month because it does nothing for you except
input to you "whats not working in the world."
The commercials even remind you of whats "wrong" with you.
4. You feed your stomach daily, now start
feeding your mind daily.
Reading books or reading here online, listen to audio
tapes on personal development, and you will in a short time become
a "growing" better person.
This daily input will outweigh, after a short time
the "negative" things that have happened in your life.
You will make better decisions and soon regain "control
of your life."
Read one article
a day on this site, then listen to an inspirational audio tape a
day and you'll quickly rise above what previously
seemed like insurmountable problems.
You'll also counter-act nearly all of the negative programming
associated with your divorce.
5. Reprogram your mental computer.
First you have been changing input by getting positive
friends eliminating the harmful messages from the people around you,
have shut off the negative media and now have a controlled
program of what you are daily reading on this site, books on the subject
and listening to. audio books.
Now we need to look at and update
programming you've "learned" from your parents, teachers and peers
that may have been appropriate at the time but is now obsolete.
Your programming system of beliefs and life guiding
decisions have led to habits you've had for years and
It will take
serious efforts on your part to counteract and/or update
this old programming.
These steps mentioned above were important starters, drop
contact with negative friends, replace with new "uppers"
negative songs, radio and shut off the TV for six
Replace them with informational
and inspirational books and daily posative reading here on our
sites and others on the net,
Rent or borrow from the library inspirational
personal development audio tapes and listen daily to them
while doing housework, driving etc.
super critical of what you hear yourself saying: learn what words
to use to program yourself positively and what words should be
eliminated from your vocabulary.
Follow these 5 rules and steps for 30 days and your life
will turn around with amazing
improvements that will astonish you.
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